5 Simple Tips to Keep Your Homestead Running Smoothly (Even When Life Feels Chaotic)

Keep Your Homestead Running Smoothly (Even When Life Feels Chaotic) with Liz Chandler @PurlsAndPixels.

Running a homestead can feel like a never-ending list of things to do, especially when life’s other demands creep in. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that keeping things simple usually works best. Here are five ways to make sure your homestead doesn’t just survive, but thrives, no matter what the day throws at you.

1. Make a Plan, But Be Ready to Improvise

Every day starts with a plan, at least, in theory. I always have a mental list of what needs to happen, whether it’s feeding the animals, pulling weeds, or trying to convince the chickens to lay their eggs in the coop, not the garden (they have their own opinions, of course).

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Plans are great. Flexibility, though? Essential. Think of it like a recipe: you follow the instructions, but you know when to add a little more spice.

2. Do What You Can, When You Can

I’ve found that homesteading is all about momentum. You don’t have to clear the whole garden in one day. Just start where you are – harvest one row of carrots today, maybe the squash tomorrow – and keep moving forward. It’s like knitting: you don’t finish the sweater in one sitting. But stitch by stitch, row by row, things come together.

When running your homestead feels hectic, remember to take on one little task at a time. Harvest some carrots, then move to the next step.

You’ll be surprised at how quickly it adds up if you don’t count every minute.

3. Let Systems Do Some of the Work

There’s a reason drip irrigation is a thing. The more you can automate, the less you have to remember, and frankly, there’s already enough rattling around in our heads. Setting up systems, whether it’s a watering timer or a routine for feeding the animals, creates a little breathing room for the unexpected. Because something will always come up.

And when you have that moment of extra time, use it wisely. Or just sit down. Sitting counts.

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Did you know that you can automate so many things on the homestead?

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4. Community Is Your Best Resource (Even If It’s Online)

We all like to think we can manage it all solo, but even the most independent among us benefit from a little help now and then. Maybe your neighbor has a tip for getting rid of bindweed forever, or maybe your kid has discovered a faster way to gather eggs. Either way, sometimes a fresh perspective or extra set of hands makes all the difference in keeping your homestead running smoothly.

Tips for Navigating Challenges with Animals, Land, and Nature when You’re the only Adult running a homestead. I know you want to do it all, but take help when you can.

You don’t have to be an island just because you want to live a quieter homestead lifestyle.

5. Celebrate the Wins, However Small

Sometimes the victory is in the details. Maybe you finally got the hens to stay in their pen for a full 24 hours (we’ll call that a miracle), or you managed to bake a loaf of bread without the dough sticking to everything in the kitchen. Whatever the win, take it. Celebrate it! After all, if you don’t, who will?

Celebrate the small wins on hectic days. Look! I got a green egg! Read more about homesteading under pressure from Liz Chandler @PurlsAndPixels.

And besides, the next challenge is always waiting as you keep your homestead running. Might as well enjoy this one while it lasts.

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Tarantula Migration

Tarantulas Wandering in Southwest Colorado: A Unique Natural Phenomenon

Every fall, a fascinating event unfolds across the plains and foothills of Southwest Colorado—the annual tarantula migration. It’s a natural spectacle that draws attention not only from local residents but also from nature enthusiasts and curious onlookers from across the country. While the thought of hundreds of large, hairy spiders might send shivers down some people’s spines, the tarantula migration is actually an incredible and harmless display of nature at work.


What Is the Tarantula Migration?

Tarantulas Wandering in Southwest Colorado: A Unique Natural Phenomenon

The tarantula migration is not a migration in the traditional sense, where animals move long distances for survival or food. Instead, it’s a seasonal event where male tarantulas—most commonly the Aphonopelma hentzi species—emerge from their burrows in search of mates. These bachelors are driven by one purpose: finding love before the end of their short adult lives. Think of it like nature’s speed dating, but with way more legs and a lot less talking.

Starting in late August and continuing through October, the males set out at dusk, bravely trekking across fields, roads, and even hiking trails in their quest for romance. While this phenomenon occurs throughout the southwestern U.S., Southwest Colorado—particularly around La Plata and Montezuma Counties—offers a prime viewing opportunity for those wanting to witness this spidery love parade.

Why Do Tarantulas Migrate?

The male tarantulas, typically between 7 and 10 years old, have spent their lives underground, feeding and molting in their solitary burrows. But after years of being single, they’ve had enough and emerge during the fall to search for that special someone—because even spiders can’t resist the call of love. Mating is their one and only mission now, and after they find a mate, they’ve basically checked off their entire bucket list.

Females, on the other hand, are much more grounded (literally and figuratively). They prefer to hang out in their burrows, waiting for Mr. Right Now to wander by. With a lifespan of up to 20 years, they take their time, knowing the males will come knocking. Unfortunately for the guys, some of these spider dates don’t always end well—cannibalism is a real possibility. Talk about a high-stakes romance!

Where to See the Migration

In Southwest Colorado, several areas are well known for good tarantula spotting. The flat grasslands between Cortez and Durango, particularly around Highway 160, are a great place to witness the migration. It’s not uncommon to see these large, slow-moving romantics crossing roads or meandering through open spaces, likely dreaming of the perfect spider wedding.

For those who wish to experience the tarantula migration, it’s best to go out just before sunset, when the males become more active. Be sure to bring a flashlight if you plan to stay after dark, as the tarantulas tend to be most active at dusk and into the early evening hours.

Are Tarantulas Dangerous?

Despite their intimidating size and appearance, tarantulas are generally not dangerous to humans. Sure, they look like they could headline a horror movie, but they’re just hopeless romantics in search of a mate. While they can bite if threatened, their venom is mild and typically not harmful beyond a bee sting in terms of pain or reaction. They’re much more interested in finding love than engaging with humans, so if you come across one, it’s best to observe from a respectful distance and let them continue their search for spider soulmates.

Tarantulas also play an important role in the ecosystem, keeping populations of insects and small invertebrates in check. Their presence is a reminder of the often-overlooked importance of spiders in maintaining balance in nature—whether they’re swiping right on their tarantula Tinder or not.

How to Enjoy the Tarantula Migration Safely

If you plan to observe the tarantula migration, there are a few things to keep in mind to ensure both your safety and the well-being of these eight-legged Casanovas:

  • Watch from a distance: Tarantulas are delicate creatures. Avoid picking them up or disturbing them on their journey for love.
  • Drive carefully: If you’re on the road, be mindful that tarantulas are slow-moving, and it’s easy to accidentally run them over. Drive cautiously in known migration areas, especially during the evening.
  • Respect their habitat: Stick to trails and paths, and avoid trampling through their natural habitats. Many of these areas are fragile ecosystems.

Ready for Love

The tarantula migration in Southwest Colorado is a remarkable event that showcases the beauty and complexity of nature—and the romantic desperation of male tarantulas! For a few short weeks each fall, the region’s rugged landscape comes alive with these gentle giants, each hoping to find love before time runs out. So, whether you’re a spider enthusiast or simply curious about the natural world, the tarantula migration is a spectacle worth seeing—if you’re brave enough to witness nature’s ultimate matchmaking event.

10 Tips for Starting Your Homestead: Simple Steps to Turn Your Dream into Reality

Liz Chandler's tips for starting your homestead off right.

If you’re dreaming of a quiet, self-sufficient life surrounded by nature, starting a homestead might be the perfect adventure. I made the leap from a stressful career to a life that’s more grounded, and although it’s been full of challenges, it’s been worth every moment. Whether you’re starting fresh in the woods, like I did, or you’re on a farm passed down through generations, these ten tips will help guide your journey to building your own homestead.

1. Start Small and Plan Big

The first step in homesteading is to dream, but don’t get overwhelmed by trying to do everything at once. It’s tempting to think you need chickens, a garden, bees, and solar panels all on day one, but it’s more sustainable to focus on one or two things at a time. I’ve learned this firsthand—running a knitting business and homeschooling my son on 8 acres means I’m always balancing my goals. Start small, get good at a few things, and then expand.

Start small & plan big when dreaming of a homestead. Get a few chicks or start a small garden and see how you enjoy the lifestyle before you jump all in.

2. Know Your Land

Before diving in, understand what your land offers and what it needs. I’ve dealt with a lot of bindweed after leaving my garden unattended for just a few weeks, and it taught me the importance of knowing your soil, the local climate, and potential pests. Spend time on your property and note how the sun moves, where water naturally drains, and what wildlife might be passing through.

3. Get Ready to Learn

There will always be something new to learn when you are starting your homestead. Whether it’s figuring out how to preserve vegetables, raise livestock, or fix broken fences, you’ll need to embrace the learning curve. I built a business from scratch, and while that didn’t prepare me for everything (hello, endless weeds), it gave me the confidence to learn as I go. From learning to use a woodchipper to digging ditches with a backhoe, homesteading requires different skills than city-life. Research, ask for advice from experienced homesteaders, and don’t be afraid to fail—it’s all part of the process.

You may need to learn to drive a tractor so you can make drainage ditches. I did! Now my garage does not flood every time it rains!

4. Set Realistic Goals

Homesteading is a long-term lifestyle, not a sprint. It’s important to be realistic about what you can accomplish each season. One mistake I’ve made is pushing too hard and trying to do too much, which left me feeling overwhelmed and behind. Set small, achievable goals, and enjoy the process. It’s okay if you don’t produce all your own food right away.

Homestead guides from Liz Chandler @PurlsAndPixels.

5. Budget Wisely

Homesteading can cost more than you think, especially in the beginning. From tools to seeds to livestock, expenses can add up quickly. When I first moved to my cabin in the woods, I learned quickly that unexpected costs are part of the package. Budget not only for essentials but also for the unexpected, like a chicken coop that suddenly needs fixing or a new fence for your garden.

6. Embrace DIY

There’s a lot of satisfaction in building and fixing things yourself, and it’s an essential part of homesteading. Over the years, I’ve learned to take on projects I never thought I’d tackle, like repairing equipment, building sheds, and maintaining my own cabin. You’ll save money, and the sense of accomplishment is incredible. Plus, doing things yourself keeps you resourceful and self-reliant, key traits for any homesteader.

Homesteading requires a lot of DIY projects. There just aren't always people to help you out in rural areas.

7. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help

Even though homesteading can feel like a solo adventure, you don’t have to do it all alone. Whether it’s reaching out to neighbors, hiring help for big projects, or simply asking online communities for advice, support is out there. I struggled with isolation in my rural setting, but building connections with others—even digitally—has made all the difference.

8. Stay Flexible

Homesteading teaches you that things won’t always go according to plan. Crops fail, livestock gets sick, and weather can ruin your best-laid plans. My experience working in different careers taught me resilience, but nothing quite prepared me for the unpredictable nature of homestead life. Adaptability is key—if one thing doesn’t work, try something else and don’t get discouraged.

Don't let one sad squash deter you. You can try again, or try planting something new.

9. Focus on Sustainability

The heart of homesteading is self-sufficiency, but sustainability should be a major focus as well. Whether you’re using solar power, rainwater collection, or planting a permaculture garden, try to think long-term. In my own homesteading life, I aim to leave things better than I found them. Small steps, like composting kitchen scraps or conserving water, add up over time.

Homestead animals like chickens will need to be protected from native wildlife like bears and coyotes. Find Liz Chandler's tips at PurlsAndPixels.

10. Find Joy in the Simple Things

At the end of the day, homesteading is about finding peace in the small moments. For me, it’s walking outside to see my son playing with our dogs or spending a quiet evening knitting in front of the fireplace. Don’t forget to slow down and appreciate the life you’re building, even when things are tough. Homesteading isn’t just about the work; it’s about the lifestyle you create for yourself and your family.

Don't forget to enjoy where you live.

Starting a homestead is an incredibly personal journey. If you’re willing to put in the hard work and take things one step at a time, the rewards are beyond measure. For me, homesteading has been about reclaiming my time, my energy, and my connection to the world around me—there’s no better feeling than knowing you built something from the ground up. So roll up your sleeves, take a deep breath, and get started—you’ve got this.

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Thriving as a Solo Parent Homesteader

Tips for Navigating Challenges with Animals, Land, and Nature when You’re the only Adult

Tips for Navigating Challenges with Animals, Land, and Nature when You’re the only Adult

Tips for Navigating Challenges with Animals, Land, and Nature when You’re the only Adult


Being a solo parent is challenging enough, but when you add the responsibilities of managing a homestead, it can feel like a whole new level of overwhelm. I know firsthand what it’s like to juggle raising a child on your own while tending to animals, land, and all the wild surprises nature throws your way. But here’s the good news: with a bit of strategy, resilience, and some solid tips, you can not only survive but thrive as a solo parent homesteader.

Start Small and Scale Slowly

One of the most common pitfalls is biting off more than you can chew—especially when homesteading. You might be dreaming of a barn full of animals, a flourishing vegetable garden, and a DIY project on every corner of your land, but it’s essential to pace yourself. Start with a few manageable tasks: maybe a small garden, a few chickens, or a couple of goats. As you get the hang of things, you can gradually expand. Remember, homesteading is a marathon, not a sprint.

As a solo parent homesteader, don't get in over your head. Start small with a few chickens and see how it goes.

Prioritize Safety First: For You and Your Kid

When you’re working solo, safety becomes even more critical. Always keep your phone charged and nearby; accidents can happen when handling animals, working with tools, or navigating rugged terrain. Teach your children basic homestead safety: never approach animals without you, stay away from machinery, and always wear appropriate gear. A simple first aid kit in easy-to-reach places around your homestead can be a lifesaver.

Routine Is Your Best Friend

Establishing a daily routine will keep you on track and help manage the chaos. Start with morning animal care: feeding, checking for injuries, and cleaning enclosures. Next, tend to your garden or any outdoor chores. In the afternoon, handle tasks like homeschooling, meal prep, or indoor projects. Evening rounds should include closing up chicken coops, checking fences, and making sure all your animals are safe for the night. Having a predictable routine helps you stay organized and ensures nothing important gets overlooked.

Get Creative with Animal Care

Managing livestock as a solo parent can be tough, but there are ways to make it easier. Set up automatic feeders and waterers wherever possible. Use portable electric fencing to rotate pastures without the heavy lifting. If you have a child who’s eager to help, assign them age-appropriate tasks like collecting eggs, brushing animals, or helping with light weeding. These small contributions can make a big difference in your workload and give your child valuable skills and confidence.

Tips for Navigating Challenges with Animals, Land, and Nature when You’re the only Adult

Harness the Power of Nature’s Helpers

Nature is full of allies waiting to help you if you know where to look. Consider adding guinea fowl or ducks to your homestead; they are excellent at controlling pests like ticks and slugs. Plant flowers that attract pollinators to boost your garden’s productivity. Set up bat houses to help with mosquito control. By creating a balanced ecosystem, you can reduce the time you spend on pest management and let nature do some of the work for you.

Land Management Tips: Work Smarter, Not Harder

Keeping your land in check is no small feat, but there are ways to streamline the process. Mulching is a lifesaver; it suppresses weeds, retains moisture, and enriches the soil—plus, it means less weeding for you. Use permaculture principles like companion planting and crop rotation to keep your soil healthy and your plants thriving. If your property has sloped areas, consider terracing or planting ground covers that prevent erosion and reduce maintenance.

Even a small family can do chores together and have fun at the same time!

Embrace Low-Maintenance Crops and Perennials

As a solo parent, you don’t need high-maintenance crops that demand constant attention. Opt for hardy perennials like rhubarb, asparagus, and berry bushes, which come back year after year with minimal effort. Herbs like mint, thyme, and oregano are also low-maintenance and can add flavor to your meals while attracting beneficial insects. Focus on crops that provide high yields with little input—think potatoes, beans, and squashes.

Lean on Technology and Community Resources

Don’t shy away from using technology to lighten the load. Solar-powered electric fences, trail cameras, and weather apps can help you stay on top of animal security and land management. Online forums, local Facebook groups, and YouTube channels are goldmines of information and support. Even though you may feel isolated, the homesteading community is vast and welcoming; reaching out can provide advice, moral support, and sometimes even physical help when needed.

Make Time for Nature, Not Just Chores

With a never-ending to-do list, it’s easy to forget why you chose this lifestyle in the first place. Set aside time to simply enjoy your surroundings. Take a moment to walk your property with your child, watch a sunset, or listen to the sounds of the animals at dusk. These small moments of connection with nature can recharge your spirit and remind you of the rewards of your hard work.

Accept Imperfection and Celebrate Small Wins

There will be days when the chores pile up, the animals don’t cooperate, or your garden gets overrun with weeds. Accept that imperfection is part of the journey. Celebrate the small wins—like a successful harvest, a day without any major mishaps, or your child learning a new skill. Each step forward, no matter how small, is progress.

Tiny Family, Giant Love

Being a solo parent homesteader is no easy task, but it’s a deeply rewarding one. With careful planning, a willingness to adapt, and a bit of creativity, you can build a sustainable, fulfilling lifestyle for yourself and your child(ren). Remember, every homestead is a work in progress; give yourself grace, trust your instincts, and keep moving forward. You’ve got this!

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Rural Road Courtesy: A Handbook for Urban Transplants

Rural Road Courtesy - small town traditions for driving and walking down backroads.

Are you a small-town newcomer? Welcome!

Let’s get you started with a guide to walking and driving on rural country roads using some typical small-town rural road courtesy traditions.

Rural Road Courtesy - small town traditions for driving and walking down backroads.

In the calm landscapes of rural life, where every bend in the road reveals a new view and neighbors are as familiar as family, understanding the unspoken rules of the road is key, especially for those transitioning from the hustle and bustle of city living. Here’s a practical guide tailored for urban transplants, offering advice on integrating respectfully into rural communities while honoring the essence of country living.

Rural Road Courtesy: Walking Etiquette

Adjust Your Stride: Transitioning from city sidewalks to rural pathways requires a mindful approach. Always walk facing oncoming traffic, stay on designated paths, and remain aware of your surroundings to ensure a safe journey.

A guide to country road etiquette. Learn the polite conventions of walking and driving on small-town country roads.

Acknowledge Drivers: Extend a courteous wave or nod to drivers who yield or slow down to accommodate pedestrians. This simple gesture acknowledges their consideration and fosters positive interactions on the road.

Rural Road Courtesy - small town traditions for driving and walking down backroads.

Enhance Visibility: In low-light conditions, prioritize safety by wearing reflective clothing or carrying a flashlight. By increasing your visibility to drivers, you contribute to a safer environment for pedestrians and motorists alike.

Rural Road Courtesy - small town traditions for driving and walking down backroads.

Respect Private Property: Stay mindful of property boundaries and refrain from trespassing on private land. Respect the rights of local landowners and follow designated routes to minimize disruptions to their livelihoods.

Embrace Local Wisdom: When offered advice or guidance by longtime residents, approach it with humility and an open mind. Engage in respectful dialogue, recognizing the value of preserving rural traditions and customs for generations to come.

Rural Road Courtesy: Driving Etiquette

Embrace Local Customs: When navigating the winding roads of the countryside, take note of the local customs, such as acknowledging fellow drivers with a friendly wave. It’s a small gesture that speaks volumes about respect and community spirit.

Exercise Caution: Rural roads may present unique challenges, from farm equipment to wandering wildlife. Exercise caution, adhere to posted speed limits, and maintain a vigilant mindset to ensure the safety of all road users.

Respect the Pace: Embrace the unhurried rhythm of rural life and resist the urge to rush. Adhering to the leisurely pace of the countryside not only enhances safety but also allows you to savor the beauty of your surroundings.

Preserve Rural Identity: While it’s natural to bring elements of urban life to your new environment, remember to respect the distinct character of rural communities. Avoid advocating for changes that would compromise the tranquility and charm of the countryside.

Preserving country living.

Safe Travels Y’all

For urban dwellers transitioning to rural life, integrating into the fabric of the community requires a blend of respect, courtesy, and appreciation for local customs. By embracing the unhurried pace, expressing gratitude for the kindness of neighbors, and preserving the intrinsic beauty of the countryside, newcomers can find fulfillment and belonging in their new surroundings. Remember, the roads of rural life may be winding, but each turn offers an opportunity to connect with the land and the people who call it home.

The Calm Before the Snowstorm: Preparing in Colorado’s Fickle Weather

Learn how I snowstorm prep in Colorado. Homesteading with Liz Chandler @PurlsAndPixels

Snowstorm Prep in Southwest Colorado

by Liz Chandler

Ah, the weather in Colorado – as changeable as a toddler’s mood swings. We all know that fleeting moment of warmth just before a snowstorm hits. It’s like nature’s way of saying, “Here’s a quick taste of spring before I dump more snow on you!” In that brief respite, it’s time to get your game face on and snowstorm prep.

Preparing for the Incoming Snowstorm

The Calm Before the Snowstorm: Preparing in Colorado's Fickle Weather by Liz Chandler

Picture this: The sun’s out, the snow’s melting, and I’m doing a mad dash around the yard. Garden tools left out? Check. Animals comfy in their shelters? Check. Buildings ready to face the snowy wrath? Check, check, check. Because in Colorado, you’ve got to seize the moment!

Animals and Outbuildings

Sure you can refill the chicken feed tomorrow. They’ve got a little left. But do you really want to hike out there in a foot of snow? I sure don’t, so I make sure to top off the hens’ feeders and waterers when it is warm and beautiful. The girls are happy, I’m happy. It is a win-win!

Colorado snowstorm prep tip: refill the chicken feeders on the warm day before most storms.

Tools, Hoses, and Toys

Colorado snowstorm prep tip: make sure your snowplow and other equipment are in working order and accessible.

An essential tip for preparing for Colorado snowstorms is to meticulously check and ensure the functionality of your snowplow and other winter equipment. Confirm that the snowplow is in optimal working condition, with all components thoroughly inspected and any necessary repairs addressed. Additionally, it is crucial to guarantee that the equipment is easily accessible when the need arises. A well-maintained and readily available snowplow can significantly streamline the process of clearing driveways and pathways, contributing to a more efficient and stress-free response to the winter weather challenges that often grace the Colorado landscape.

Colorado snow prep tip: put the wheel barrow and other garden tools away before it snows.

Another crucial tip for preparing for Colorado snowstorms involves taking advantage of the fleeting warm days: make it a priority to pick up outdoor toys and tools. These items left scattered in the yard may soon find themselves buried under a blanket of snow, complicating cleanup and potentially causing damage.

Get your tools orgainized for winter before the first storm hits. Keep them organized by upcycling an old pallet. Find the DIY from Liz Chandler @PurlsAndPixels.

If your weather has been warm enough to use the garden hoses, it’s time to unhook them from the house and outdoor faucets. Leaving water hoses connected in freezing temperatures can cause the hoses or, worse, the pipes in your house to freeze and burst from the expanding water turning ice.

By seizing the opportunity to tidy up during those brief spells of milder weather, you ensure a smoother transition into the snowy days ahead, saving both time and effort in the long run.

Colorado snowstorm prep tip: pick up toys and tools on warm days or they'll get buried in the snow.

Finish Shoveling

Colorado Snowstorm prep tip: Finish shoveling icy spots as soon as they thaw or you'll get more snow on top and they will be stuck all winter.

Alright, fellow winter warriors, here’s a snow survival nugget: treat icy spots like ninja snow – quick and sneaky! The game plan? Finish shoveling those frosty troublemakers as soon as they thaw. Why, you ask? Well, let’s just say we want to avoid a winter-long staring contest with stubborn ice patches. If you procrastinate, they might just call in more snow reinforcements and set up camp for the entire season. So, grab your shovel, channel your inner snow superhero, and let’s keep our winter pathways drama-free and slip-proof!

Embracing Indoor Activities: Knitting During Snowstorms

Knitting Journal: Winter Wonderland by Liz Chandler @PurlsAndPixels.

As soon as the snowflakes commence their enchanting dance, it’s officially knitting o’clock! Believe me, it’s the ideal way to embrace the storm. The needles go clickety-clack, and in the blink of an eye, I transform into a crafting maestro in the midst of a winter wonderland.

Saluting the Quirks of Colorado Weather

Ah, Colorado – where the weather keeps us on our toes! That last sunny hurrah before a snowstorm? It’s our reminder to prep smart and savor every twist and turn. So, here’s to our ever-surprising skies and the quirky rituals that make our snowy days a tad cozier.

Hey, how do you snowstorm prep in Colorado’s yo-yo weather? Share your tips for embracing the unexpected or let me know your secret weather-predicting weapon. WeatherBug, anyone?

Colorado snowstorm prep.

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